Broken but beautiful

आसमान में चमकते हुए सितारे तो हम रोज देखते हैं;
लेकिन सिर्फ किसी टूटते हुए तारे को देख,
आंखें मूंदे हम सपने सेकते हैं ।।

Similarly, somethings become more valuable when broken for instance, hearts, relationships and the broken hearts of people in these broken relationships..

 In Japan, there is the art of Kintsugi, where broken ceramics are put back together again
Their cracks are filled with gold cement,
To remind you, remind me and all of us that broken can be beautiful again,
 To remind us that memories may fade but don't be afraid to remember, 
To remind us the importance of being and staying glued in this together,
 To teach us that our past history is what actually helps us reset,

To remind us that even though the heart moves on,

Does it really really ever forget?

I don't know who fixes broken pieces 

but I do know why that man still uses a tattered blanket to warm himself up on cold nights

 Because in spite of being tattered, that blanket reminds him of who he used to be and allows him to meet his own concience.

In Kintsugi, when two broken pieces are put back together they are given time,

 for the glue to Harden

 and for the craftsmen to divide the pieces before putting back them together..
 Hardening and softening with every breath,
they stay distant only to be together again
 they fear of being completely broken again..

 The fear of having to hear or say yet another goodbye,
 The fear of loving way too much or maybe just too little,
The fear of knowing that their hopes and dreams are still way to brittle..

 But what good is a love, that you aren't afraid to lose?
What good is a traveler who doesn't have a home?
 If you are on this journey, relax and breathe in,
 If today you are broken, don't be afraid to shatter tomorrow..

Learn to shatter, because even Majnu entered the coffin with Laila 
Learn to shatter, because even Shahjahan is buried with Mumtaj 
Look, love doesn't die even through lovers do
 True lovers are not afraid of being broken again..

 So my dear ones,
 Wrap yourself in this tattered blanket of love 
You are walked the straight path for too long, don't be afraid to take a turn

Hold each others hand for the journey and not for the destination.

 Let your lover choose his own path,
 you made live apart but at least have the courage to do so
 What will happen if you break again?
 You will rise up and say "I did it all over again"

 so my dear ones,
 repeat and repeat is over again 
that you are broken and broken, but beautiful 
And Beautiful is strong enough to be broken again..

"Real" is far better than "Perfect"

Perfection is a myth

More you strive hard to achieve perfection

More you'll end up being troubled

Nothing is ever perfect

No one can be perfect

No relationship is ever perfect

What's the definition of Perfect anyways?

If you assign a particular standard as perfect

You're limiting that thing is potential to it

You're setting limit to yourself

Instead just be real, do what you do but be best at it

Do the right thing

Do what matters the most

Be real, be simple keep your vision straight and focused

There's no time for bullshit

Pure real vibes and place for real people only

Remember, perfection is a day dream, a fantasy, but being real, is in your hands.! All up-to your will

Accepting perfection is next impossible but accepting real is the real deal.

Think twice before you speak.

Speaking is a means of expressing our ideas, thoughts. It is the most widely used type of communication. But sometimes it may also lead to disasters and destruction since there is a saying: “Words cut more than swords.” which is a very good saying because sometimes one can hurt another so much using words. A person can even murder some other with words; in this case the murder weapon is a word. Because the sword can be used in destruction; but words can both lead to the destruction and also heal the deepest wounds. So, it is very important how we use words. If we hurt someone with a sword the pain is physical and it diminishes in long run but if we hurt a person with words the pain is always intact there. An arrow cannot come back once it left. Likewise, we cannot take back the words we have spoken. We give so much trouble to ourselves with our existing knowledge and informational background that this knowledge and informational background is not enough to solve these problems and eliminate that trouble we have got ourselves in. Most of the time, we cause all these troubles with our own tongue and words.

You can change other’s minds with words by persuading them in the kindest ways which is more important and much more successful than constraining other’s will by force. But with your words also one should be so careful in order not to hurt any feelings or make false accusations about innocent people.

So be careful with your words once they are said they can only be forgiven not forgotten.

You may have hidden talents that you never knew about.

Never underestimate your life. It is most precious. You never know what talents are hidden within you and what you have to offer the world.

 

 

We are all born with certain strengths and weaknesses. As much as people like to say that everyone has equal opportunity, it's hard not to argue that we all have some inborn talents that allows us to potentially reach a much higher level of skill in some areas; however we are often unaware of some of these talents.

It's not until you start reading and writing about all kinds of different topics and try your hand at different disciplines that you start to realize just how much something suits you. Have you ever tried something new and interesting ? You might be pleasantly surprised to find out that aren't half bad at it - and that it gives you plenty of enjoyment.

I am Strong

"पसंद है मुझे.. उन लोगों से हारना..

जो लोग मेरे हारने की वजह से पहली बार जीते हो"

I am strong because I have felt pain 

because I depend on myself 

because I know my weaknesses 

because despite everything I have been through, I am still here..

Now I am strong enough to handle problems.

Now I am strong enough to control my emotions.

Now I am strong enough to manage things.

Now I am strong enough to face the world.

         Knock knock...

A new challenge knock..

A new person knock..

A new problem knock..

And Now show how much you are strong..